Saturday, May 16, 2009

In loving memory of a friend

A friend of B and mine, Riduan, passed away this morning at 2.45am due to blood infection. And he's just 37.

The last time we met was March last year during his wedding. Was told by a friend on Tuesday night that he was admitted to ICU but we were getting ready to pick up my SIL in LCCT and so,we could not visit him that night. B did went and visit on Wednesday morning before he left for Pahang with my SIL. By then, he was already only depending on life support.

As B only arrived yesterday night from Pahang, I had planned since yesterday that we would go and visit him today after my meeting. Was telling my colleagues and Mama about my plan yesterday. Tapi Allah lebih sayangkan dia.

We arrived at his house in Kajang at nearly 5am and stayed till his funeral at noon tadi. Ramai office colleagues dia datang, that just shows how much he is loved by his friends. Sebak sangat rasa. He was such a joyful person, terngiang2 lagi gelak ketawa dia. Moga Allah mencucuri rahmat ke atas rohnya dan moga arwah ditempatkan bersama orang-orang yang beriman. AMIN.



6 comments:

konot said...

al fatihah utk arwah.. takziah buat the family

AiLing said...

Amy *hugs* .. I hv never met him in person. Tapi kami ambil tahu hal masing2! Bertahun juga menghabiskan masa dekat Alamak dengan lipan .. semenjak dia kawin, dia terus menyepi. dulu setiap kali sembang dengan dia tak pernah lah tak ketawa, ya dekat publik mmg nampak ganeh semacam .. tapi sebenarnya Wan mmg baik .. sentiasa buat kawan gembira walaupun saat dia sendiri tidak gembira ..

Siapa sangka, begitu cepat ajalnya .. itulah kalau Allah dah berkehendak, sesaat pun tidak di cepat dan dilewatkan. sebab tu kita disuruh berbaik2 antara satu sama lain, supaya bila tiba waktunya kita tak merasa kesal dan terhutang .. insyaAllah.

semoga dia mendpt redha Allah dan rohnya ditempatkan bersama para solehin. Al-Fathihah.

Amy said...

Konot - Tenkiu. Aku masih teringat2 saat dia dikapakan depan mata aku. I cannot hold back my tears apatah lagi tengok wife dia.

Ai Ling - Tu la, dia kan in my circle of friends with Kedi, Sepol and Akim. Betul, gelak memanjang. Kena kutuk pun lagi dia gelak. We spent a lot of time together dulu,kat Subang.. cuma dah kurang bila masing2 dah kawin. Sepol and Akim paling terasa coz diaorg jauh and tak dapat dtg. I was updating both of my abang tu thru sms throughout that day. And I cried everytime Akim sms, sebak baca sms dia, coz he was soooo sad, diaorg kan rapat. Madie pointed out something that day - about how kita kekadang terlupa kat kawan dlm sibuk dgn commitment masing2, takkan bila dah meninggal baru nak jumpa.

He has a point la. Tengah muhasabah diri ni, kena rajin jumpa kawan2, ambik tahu kesihatan kawan2 - yang ambik berat pasal aku jugak la :). U take care Ling!

wanshana said...

Innalillahi wa inna ilaihi raaji'un.

Al-Fatihah untuk Arwah.

You're right - sometimes we take our friends and family for granted, thinking that there will always be time to see them later...until it's too late.

Thank you for the reminder, dear.

Take care.

Anie said...

I'm not dat close compared to you, but he was one of the too many person who entered my life and never really say goodbye. Until that day.

Amy said...

Kak Shana - Nak pelokk *hugs*

Mel - Thanks for coming and temankan aku that day. I still can't take my mind off seeing arwah dikapankan, till today.