Wednesday, June 15, 2011

How are you? Yes, you!

Almost 2 weeks tak berupdate.. camner nak jadik blogger tegar neh? Nak kata busy sangat tak jugak, busy2 keje je..balik keje biasalah dgn house chores, ber FB ler jugak. Eh, perlu nak explain ke? Tak yah le dok.

Nak luah rasa hati je ni. Aku tahu aku bukan expert matter dlm hal2 anak2 dan pregnancy ni. Tapi kat mana lagi nak luah kalau bukan dlm blog hamba ni. Aku tahu kids are kids..they are adventurous, they can be loud and noisy sometimes. Kadang2 sebab nak attention or sebab tak dapat apa diaorg nak, so ngamuk ler. Walaupun takde anak, but I have a handful of nieces, nephews dan tak lupa anak2 kawan2 yang aku pernah spend time kat rumah, kat malls, cinema and others. My in laws/friends sometimes pujuk cara lembut, sometimes pujuk garang style, nurturing them and I can see that it works. Being mothers I guess you all know your child well enough to know which approach works in different situations.

Adakah normal bila kids mengamuk every day, yes everyday dengan menangis dan jerit macam kena pukul, wailing for a good 15-20 mins sambil hentak2 grill pintu? Boleh dengar setiap malam, and if you're lucky it can start as early as 8.00am on a weekend too? :). Antara disadvantage of duduk rumah teres, you can hear everything and it sounded so near (eh dia pun bleh dengar aku gak la kan? :P). *pejam mata* rasa mcm nak pindah Kelana Jaya balik je..so peaceful. Mungkin kanak2 itu tidak cukup ruang untuk berlari di dlm kawasan rumah yang sempit? Tapi playground dekat je..ahh, I guess I have to wait for another 4-5 years bila dah besar sket mungkin kurang nangis kut. Sabo je lah.

Ok, topic lain, pregnancy. Sila la jangan salah faham aku cakap ni sebab aku belum berjaya pregnant, jadi kononnya ni kes dengki. Tidak. Pada kawan2 opis dan ex-opis yang membaca, hehe jangan serkap jarang, korang tak tahu aku ckp pasal siapa. Aku kumpul2 la citer, cedok dari opis lama campur opis baru. Soalannya ialah perlu ke cakap pasal pregnancy all the time? Like ALLL-THE-TIME. Topik sekecik hama pun seboleh mungkin nak kaitkan dengan pregnancy. Antara dialog2 yang aku masih ingat:

Aduih, banyaknya keje, mau aku terberanak nanti (padahal baru masuk dua bulan usia kandungan masa dia cakap ni)..kesian baby (no dua) aku..

Nanti you tolong cover kerja I, I rasa tak sedap la, I kan pregnant. (and goes for EL/MC).

You know, husband I kan...lalalala (isi sendiri dialog)..my pregnancy ni, my pregnancy bla bla

Sebenarnya banyak lagi tapi bila dah nak tulis lupa plak. Kalau yg baru first pregnancy, faham ler excitednya kan. Ni dah masuk no 2,3,4,5 dok camtu gak..haih. The world doesn't revolve around you je tau. But this blog revolve around me, jadi tak suka baca, bleh berenti baca. Aku ada gak kawan yang mengandung, ok je, steady je buat keje. Bercakap tentang pregnancy bila org tanya standard question, bila due, dah scan belum, boy ke girl..etc. Tapi betullah lain pregnancy, lain moodnya ye dak? Tapi tahlah, maybe sebab aku boleh tengok ada yg ok je, kuat je bekerja sampai the last drop hehe. Ada yang drama lebih. *rolling eyes*

Kalau kat FB toksah kata la. Ada yg every status update ckp pasal tu, ada yang bagi hint sket2 je and very subtle. Ada yang langsung tak nampak hint, tahu2 je dah announce arrival of baby. *wink-wink* Congrats J! :) Tapi status update tu kan hak masing2..agak tak suka tengok, hide je wall diaorg kan, apa susah..technology makes easy.

Just remember everytime you whine about your sleepless night and your aching body, someone somewhere in this world is dying to swap places with you :). Bersyukurlah diberikan nikmat dan rezeki dari Tuhan.

Enjoy your day! ~


10 comments:

Anonymous said...

"someone somewhere in this world is dying to swap places with you"

- agree! i conceive after 5 years of marriage. being pregnant can be exhausting. tp bila ingat balik, how much i want this at the 1st place, no more whining ;). ur time will come, insyaAllah.
- ur silent reader.

Silent Scribbler said...

Salam kak amy... I can so relate to what you're talking about when it comes to work. I remember I was the last one to get married in my department, and I was constantly being shoved work that others did not want to do coz they were either pregnant or had to run off to take care of their children. At the time I didn't mind but I think kerja kene sama rata lah jugak sbb gaji semua sama kan? I pray that your rezeki comes soon (and for me too! :-)) Insya Allah!

Amy said...

*phew* lega ada org comment sbb dlm hati dok pikir 'Isk mesti diaorg ingat aku kejam'..

Silent reader - Hey you! Thanks for reading..do come and visit selalu k walaupun I dah kurang update, tengah pick up momentum balik ni. Beshnya dah dpt rezeki.. I belum give up cuma I tak sesedih dulu2 la. :) Will keep trying.

Sha - Kan? Kak Amy selalu kena tolerate when it comes to taking leave due to pregnancy or jaga anak sakit. Cuma kalau dah every week asyik si isteri je yg EL, bleh terbakor gak hati ni letih woo load keje jadi kita sorang je yg kena buat. Sabo kan lah hati. Hopefully kalau dah sampai my time, org plak tolerate dgn I.

Arena said...

Aku ada gak ckp pasal ni kat blog saper tah. Aku pon letih gak dengar2 pasal pregnant nih. Citer sket2 okeylah. Kat log takpe sebab tu blog ko. Tapi kalau kat kerje tu all the time ckp pasal pregnant....letih hahahha.

Amy said...

Che Na - Sgt letih, sbb ada gak kawan lain yg pregnant tapi tak mcm yg dok ckppp je pasal ni.

nadya.s said...

i feel u babe, and agree., aku doa'kan ko cepat dapat baby.. AND, aku bertemu jodoh!.. :D

hahahah!....

Linda said...

I feel you babe...memang tingin tapi...

Nomee said...

*hug amy kuat-kuat*

Amy said...

Nadya - Aminn..

Linda - Tingin apa babe?

Nomee - *hugs balik* Rindu la nak borak macam hari tu kat SACC Mall, you, Linda, Alin and me. Aku ada nak try satu kedai western kat Sek 7, Shah Alam..masuk newspaper ahad ari tu. Jom. Nanti aku ajak Kod sekali.

HowAreYou said...

hi How are u doin'